How to Attract More Smart, Fun, and Caring People Into Your Life

Did you know that you can radically increase and almost guarantee your success by attracting and associating with the right people? We are all familiar with the famous saying birds of a feather flock together. It’s true. Like attracts like. So how do you attract more success, more love, and more joy into your life? It starts with you becoming more of what you want to experience. That’s right – you attract it by becoming it.

Today’s affirmation is designed to help you become that which you seek to attract:

I attract loving, smart, and fun people into my life.

I am fortunate to have so many wonderful people in my life.

I am loving, smart, and fun wherever I go. By doing this, I am more likely to find the same. By being loving, I attract loving people. By being smart and fun, I attract people that are also smart and fun.

Having such people in my life makes my life richer and fuller. Life is more fun and interesting when it is filled with wonderful individuals.

It is easy for me to attract great people into my life. I seem to be a magnet for positive people. Others find me interesting and want to be a part of my life. I welcome positive people and am grateful to spend time with them.

When I am feeling lonely, I remember that I can find awesome people everywhere. I effortlessly attract those that I enjoy and admire.

Others are attracted to my kindness, intelligence, and generosity. I appreciate the unique qualities that each person has to offer. My charm and sense of humor are attractive to others and it makes them want to spend time with me.

Self-Reflection Questions:

1.            Do I already have all the people I want in my life?

2.            In what ways do I need to change to attract positive people?

3.            What can I do today to get started?

Today, I am very attractive to the people I want in my life. I find I can easily attract loving, smart, and fun people into my life.

 

Integrity in all Relationships

In a world obsessed with getting things done faster, sometimes getting things done the right way can take a back seat. The temporary gains you get are never worth the cost of operating without integrity. Even if others on your team or in your industry are taking short cuts and seem to be getting ahead,  you should continue to approach your relationships with integrity.  You are one person away from your next opportunity so handle all relationships with integrity.

“Real integrity is doing the right thing, knowing that nobody’s going to know whether you did it or not.” ― Oprah Winfrey

Today’s affirmation is a simple reminder of the importance of living and working in integrity:

 I approach all relationships with integrity.

I treat every relationship as if it is my only one. The people who come in and out of my life deserve to be treated fairly. I approach all relationships with unquestionable integrity.

I am honest with friends and family. Even when the truth may feel uncomfortable, I do not withhold information or use information to manipulate others.

I am honest with co-workers I am competing against for a promotion. If there is information to be shared among us, I share it. I avoid withholding information for personal gain.

It is important that people can take my words and actions at face value. I feel peace of mind when I am completely honest.

Even though my honesty may produce unfavorable results, I feel better maintaining my integrity.

My focus is to act in accordance with my morals and conscience. If I can be true to myself, I know I can be true to others. I believe my ability to maintain integrity starts from within.

Self-Reflection Questions:

1.           Am I honest with others when I realize they try to deceive me?

2.            Are there relationships I am forced to put aside because the other person does not act with integrity?

3.            What lessons do I teach others who I have direct influence over about relationships and integrity?

 Today, I celebrate my relationships. I love the fact that people around me feel safe in my presence. I treat others how I want to be treated. I know friends and strangers alike see my actions as honorable.

 

Control Your Thoughts, Control Your Destiny

What and how you think and feel are so important to attaining any level of success. Taking control of how you think and replacing thoughts and feelings of self-doubt and limitation with thoughts and feelings of self-confidence and limitless possibilities is an important step in your journey to success. If you think it, you can achieve it.

“Change your thoughts and you change your world.” – Norman Vincent Peale

Today’s affirmation is a simple reminder that you and you alone are in control of your emotions and emotions:

I am in full control of my emotions and thoughts.

I have the ability to direct my thoughts in any situation.

I choose to have thoughts that serve me. Negative thoughts create emotions and beliefs that are contrary to my purpose. I am always focused on my purpose. In every situation, I can choose to have a thought that serves me or impedes me. I choose to have thoughts that serve me.

By controlling my thoughts, I can control my reality. Directing my thoughts is easy for me.

In difficult times, I am focused on solutions. Only by thinking about solutions am I likely to find an acceptable one.

In pleasant times, I am focused on the experience. Allowing my mind to wander limits the amount of enjoyment I can experience. I am fully in the moment during pleasant times.

Negative emotions are signs that something needs to be corrected. When I experience a negative emotion, I immediately focus on finding an alternative to that emotion.

This is the only time a negative emotion serves a useful purpose.

It can be challenging to control my thoughts and emotions. When my thoughts stray, I gently bring them back to the present. Life can only be lived and experienced in the moment.

Self-Reflection Questions:

1.            When do I find it most challenging to control my thoughts?

2.            When is it easiest to control my thoughts?

3.            How would my life change if I had greater control over my thoughts and emotions?

Today, I keep my thoughts focused on the present. I limit my mind’s tendency to dwell on the past and wonder about the future. I am in full control of my emotions and thoughts.