How Aligning Words and Deeds Unleashes Personal Power

Have you ever been disappointed because someone told you he/she would do something and then didn’t do it? How did you feel about that person after the fact?

Often times when our words don’t support our actions, there is an underlying reason why. After all, most of us are good people with good intentions. If we are doing or not doing something we’ve said we are going to do, it’s important to figure out why.

Were you afraid of disappointing the other person if you said no to their request? Were you concerned about what they would think of you?

Personal power is achieved as a result of acting in ways you value. You will not feel worthy of receiving all the good things life has in store for you if you are letting yourself down by letting others down.

On your road to achieving more success, it’s important to align your words with your deeds.

Today’s affirmation is a simple challenge to do what you say you will do:

My actions match my words.

Actions really do speak louder than words. I ensure that what I say corresponds with what I do.

I take my promises seriously. I graciously decline obligations that I am unable to fulfill. When I make a commitment, I follow through.

I think before I speak. Giving myself time to reflect helps me to become more responsible and considerate. I take into account my true feelings and the impact that my words have on others.

I investigate any conflicts that arise between the way I speak and the way I act. I evaluate my track record. Mistakes are bound to happen, but I always look for ways to better myself. I learn from my lapses and do better next time.

I earn the trust of others when I live up to my promises.

I take satisfaction in knowing that I am living according to my values. Everything I say becomes more beautiful and meaningful when my actions mirror my words. When I say I value my home, people can see how neat and orderly it is. When I tell someone I love them, they can see the time and effort I invest in our relationship.

Self-Reflection Questions:

1.            How do I feel when I fulfill the promises that I make?

2.            What are some additional methods that would help me to think before speaking?

3.            Why is it important for me to be trustworthy?

Today, I pay attention to what comes out of my mouth. I am committed to being true to my word.